Parenting is one of the best things in the world. The moment our little one comes out to this world is extraordinary and overwhelming. To have a little one is a blessing, and it is one of the most awaited things of marriage. Parenting is also a tough job, and it gets tougher when you have more than just a little one who will pop out in this world. Having twins is one of the most unexpected things about parenting. Parents have to put double, triple, or quadruple effort into everything that they do to make sure that they are giving equal efforts to their babies. Being a parent of twins is a roller coaster ride, and the following are four things parents of twins should know.
1. Have a schedule
When you have twins, it is fundamental to have a schedule, because as much as possible, you need to accommodate your twins at the same time. Having a schedule of their feeding time and sleeping is easy and helpful. Feeding time and sleeping both happen at the same time because it is automatic for babies to sleep after eating. When you schedule this during times where you need to work, rest, or sleep, it will be to your advantage. You will not even need to worry if they suddenly wake up because you can have a baby monitor to keep an eye on your twins. Furthermore, when they have the same schedule, it is expected that they will do everything at the same time, such as learning to crawl, walk, stand, and potty train. It is where the challenge will enter.
2. Have a baby carrier and stroller
Getting exhausted and tired is the last thing that should happen to parents of twins. Having twins requires a lot of energy, that is why you should use all available resources that can help you. Buying a carrier and stroller will be a great help. When you are wearing a baby carrier, your hands are free, which enables you to do other things. It is also good and healthy for your baby. You can always give attention to your babies which enhances their social skills while feeling your warmth and security.
3. Always be ready
Being ready all the time is a secret to the easier parenting of twins. When you have twins, their essential needs should always be ready. You need to be extra prepared because you will need more milk, diapers, clothes and more. When you are a parent of twins, taking note of all tips to help you is crucial. Therefore, when they give tips, you should always listen to avoid being messy and disorganized.
4. Not matching is okay
Letting your twins wear matching outfits is cute and beautiful. However, you do not need to do it all the time. Having identical twins is already confusing enough. With their matching outfits, you might make mistakes. Furthermore, not letting them wear matching outfits will help them build their self-identity. They will not think that they are the same as their twin. This will encourage them to focus on what they want. Therefore, there will be lesser competition among them.
The following shows that parenting is a blessing and a challenge. Most importantly, when you have twins. It shows that parents should be open to any help that they will receive. It also shows that challenges during parenting are happy memories to be treasured forever.
I’m a 20-something stay-at-home mother and wife. I have an amazing husband, a beautiful daughter, two loving dogs, and a lazy cat. I wouldn’t change my life for anything! I love to read, listen to music, cook and blog!
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