If you know someone with a drug or alcohol addiction then you know how much of a sensitive topic it can be to bring up. Approaching a person to try to convince them to seek professional help is even more difficult. Needless to say, there might come a time when you have to muster the strength to speak to them because addiction doesn’t just affect the user; it also harms anyone who deals with them on a regular basis. That’s why alcoholism or drug addiction is considered a family disease. There is always a right and wrong way to approach a loved one about this problem. The way you talk, your body language, your choice of words will all play a role in how the person in question will react toward your suggestion or request. Many people’s lives can turn into turmoil when a loved one is addicted.
These are some ways where your advice can be considered objectively, leading the user to realize that professional help is the best option for them.
Learn More About Addiction
When you learn more about this cause, you’ll be able to offer better help. Also, knowing the type of drug that your loved one is addicted to will help you learn about how it’s affecting the person. You also want to know if there is a deeper underlying cause of the addiction. While learning about addiction and how it affects the brain, you’ll better understand what your loved one is going through. You will also become more aware of what treatments involve in order to know what you can expect.
Motivate
There is a huge difference between instructing and motivating someone. You want to motivate the person in question to make the right decision on their own free will. That means giving no ultimatums, threats, or orders, as these typically cause more harm than good. Speak in general terms instead of being very particular about the person. Give them examples of how their life can improve. It’s important that they understand and feel that it’s
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