Being a first-time mother will be both rewarding and scary. It is a situation that nobody can really be prepared for. Even with the numerous books, journals, blogs, seminars, and classes available. There will always be something new to learn and to experience as you go through the journey. But to ease the anxiety, here are some things that a first-time mother wished someone had prepared them for.
Having your Baby
Even the most prepared person will be surprised when it’s time to deliver their baby. The decision of going through a vaginal birth can be changed to a caesarian delivery, or vice versa, because of some unexpected causes. The best thing is to be prepared for both scenarios. Include your partner and our family on the plans to let them know what to do in either case.
Birth-love
The first time you will see your baby will not be his cutest moment. He may have a large head, swollen eyes, peeling skin, stork bites, milia, and rashes. Even with this fact, most parents instantly feel a connection to their baby. However, 20% of first-time parents do not feel instantly connected to their newborn, and this is normal! It is the mixture of hormones from the mother’s body that causes the feeling of euphoria and deep love for their newborn. Give it time, and you’ll soon feel that strong mother-child bond.
Pain and Sickness
A child can not always convey if they are feeling something wrong. Learn to watch out for signs of distress, change in mood, or if the child begins to have a fever. A fever is usually the first symptom of an illness. It can also be a sign of teething and the emergence of their 2 year molars, a cold, an ear infection, respiratory infections, and pneumonia, among others. But not all fevers mean danger. It is better to monitor your child and see your pediatrician if the temperature rises above 104
I’m a 20-something stay-at-home mother and wife. I have an amazing husband, a beautiful daughter, two loving dogs, and a lazy cat. I wouldn’t change my life for anything! I love to read, listen to music, cook and blog!
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