We all want to know the secret to being confident. While a significant part of it deals with harboring a positive mindset, a lot of it has to do with your aesthetic as well your clothes, in particular. Your confidence has a lot to do with what you wear and, more importantly, how you wear it.
Style does not necessarily focus on trends. Style is personal because it is a reflection of how you choose to present yourself to the world. At the end of the day, we all just want to look good.
When you look good, you feel good, right? Make sure to take this personal style test. The following is a list of ten style tips that will make you feel more confident.
- Flaunt your strengths
Nobody is perfect don’t worry, nobody expects you to be either (unless you are Victoria’s Secret model, obviously).
No doubt, somewhere is our hearts, we all have things that we love and hate about ourselves. Some of us love how toned our arms are but cannot stand the sight of our thighs. Some amongst us cannot help but admire our prominent collarbones, but wish our muffin tops would magically disappear overnight. Trust and believe; we all battle the same demons.
The trick here is to find your best assets and flaunt them. Think of it as entering a battlefield you bring out your best weapons for combat because they make you feel the strongest. By highlighting the parts of your body that you love the most, you will feel more confident.
If you love how toned your legs are, flaunt them by wearing skirts, slit dresses, fitted trousers, and skinny jeans to accentuate their shape even more.
If your strength is your mesmerizing hourglass physique, highlight your tiny waist by sporting high-waisted pants or bell-bottoms paired with fitted tops.
If you love to show off your curves, attract all eyes with body-hugging pencil skirts, tailored trousers, and dresses.
Identify your strengths and work your way around them to your advantage.
- Know what looks good on you
It is essential to understand your style and what works for you. You can never know what looks good on you until you try it out.
For this reason, we recommend experimenting with an array of cuts, colors, and fits to understand what looks best on you.
Do you avoid color usually? Maybe try on that beautiful bright yellow top that caught your eye. Take risks wear that big ruffle sleeved top even though you have never tried something like that before.
Refrain from purposely trapping yourself in a style rut. Keep an open mind and try new things because you might just be pleasantly surprised.
- Choose trends wisely
Trends change with every passing second. One minute it is monochrome minimalism, and the next it is body-hugging latex dresses. Trends consume us.
If you are looking to dress more confidently, here is one thing to remember not all trends are created equally.
You cannot expect every trend to work for you. They are not designed to suit every shape or style preference. You do not have to wear something simply because it is the hot new thing in the market.
Endorse trends that play to your strengths. Opt for silhouettes that flatter your physique. Wear styles and cuts that conceal your flaws instead of highlighting them.
Fit over fashion make that your mantra because nothing makes an impression like a well-fitting flattering ensemble.
- Play with fabric
Fabric is everything because it can make or break your entire outlook. Each material falls and fits differently, which is why some may work for you, whereas others may not.
To feel more confident, we recommend, accentuating your good parts with the help of fabric.
Avoid high sheen fabrics if you want to distract focus from your areas of concern. High sheen fabrics attract light and end up making things appear bigger than they actually are. Instead, opt for matte fabric for these problem areas and reserve the high sheen fabric for areas you wish to draw attention to.
Similarly, if you are curvy, invest in fabrics that contour creases and fall seamlessly over your curves.
- Prints are not the enemy
Prints earn a bad rep for no reason. Most people avoid them because they do not seem very flattering. In reality, most of us just do not know how to wear them properly.
Prints are actually super flattering and versatile. They are unique and always spark interest in an otherwise basic and boring ensemble.
The only rule that you must remember regarding prints is that you do not want the print to wear you. Avoid wide and large patterns if you wish to look toned. Switch horizontal patterns with vertically cascading prints because they harbor a slimming visual effect. Opt for smaller designs if you are short.
Use printed pieces in combination with plain ones to strike the perfect balance. If you are feeling bold and outgoing, maybe even pair one print with another. Seek inspiration from your style icons and create a personalized look that works for you.
- Befriend colors
Colors indeed breathe life into every picture. However, they add more to life than just visual appeal. Colors exude emotion. They elicit moods and reactions.
As Taylor Swift sang, Losing him was blue like I’d never known, missing him was dark grey all alone, forgetting him was like trying to know somebody you never met, but loving him was red.
Do not be afraid to embrace color because they can give you that instant confidence boost and uplift in mood. Learn about the colors that look best on you and incorporate them into your ensemble to attract interest.
Go bold with a color blocking killer outfit or spice up a monochrome look with a pop of vibrancy. Use them to draw attention and stand out in the crowd.
- When in doubt, go all black
There is nothing more flattering than an all-black ensemble. Black is the one color that looks good on anyone and everyone. Like a trusty friend that you can rely on in times of need, black is the color you can always fall back on without a second thought.
When in doubt, piece together a simple yet stunning ensemble using black pieces in your wardrobe. Something as simple and understated as a pair of black pants and a black turtleneck paired with a black women’s leather jacket can make the ultimate fashion statement. A little black dress is another must-have for days when nothing seems to work.
Complete the look with a pop of color, a little bit of bling, or an exciting new texture, and you are ready to turn heads wherever you go.
- Prioritize comfort over everything else
Confidence lies in comfort. If you are not comfortable, there is no way you can feel confident. Your outfit is a representation of your persona. It reflects your taste and style. Make sure to wear whatever makes you feel good.
Show the amount of skin that you feel the easiest in. Some like to show more skin, whereas others like to keep it modest. The general rule is to avoid overexposure.
- Hair and makeup make all the difference
A little bit of extra effort makes all the difference when it comes to hair and makeup. A neatly tied ponytail is always more attractive than heading out with a messy bedhead.
Similarly, a little dab of concealer under the eyes can brighten up your face. Add a slight flush to your cheeks with blush. Add warmth and structure to your face with some bronzer. Open up the eyes with some mascara and finish the look with a statement lip color.
Trust and believe: the slightest bit of effort makes all the difference because when you look good, you feel good.
As Cardi B aptly noted, I feel beautiful without makeup on, but when I do put makeup on, it just gives me this extra pop.
- Fix your approach
To feel confident, you must condition your mind to act confident. Believe in yourself and understand that your outlook does not determine your worth.
Own your aesthetic by embracing your flaws. You are your worst critic, so just cut yourself some slack.
- Parting thoughts
Confidence comes from within you. Your stunning outfit harbors no impact if you do not carry it with confidence and grace. Trust your choices, and feel good about what you are wearing.
Some call it arrogant. I call it confident. Beyonce
Use our styling tips to curate your next runway-worthy ensemble and remember to strut and slay all the haters away.
Evie Harrison:
Evie Harrison is a blogger by choice. She loves to discover the world around her. She likes to share her discoveries, experiences and express herself through her blogs. Find her on Twitter:@iamevieharrison
I’m a 20-something stay-at-home mother and wife. I have an amazing husband, a beautiful daughter, two loving dogs, and a lazy cat. I wouldn’t change my life for anything! I love to read, listen to music, cook and blog!
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